When we end a relationship, whether it ended on good or bad terms, our ex-partner will write to us again on some occasion, it is at this time that you should take into account the following:
The type of message he sent you , that is, if it is to ask you how you are, to collaborate with him on something, to hear from you or some inappropriate proposal. You will be the one who will decide if he responds or not.
The way the relationship ended : Obviously if nothing ended well it is advisable not to respond to the message and even if you feel uncomfortable you can delete your ex from your social networks, but if the relationship ended on good terms and you feel good to answer him then do it.
If you already have a partner : Keep in mind that you should not do what you would not like to be done to you. Although if it generates doubts about what your ex wants, you can answer him and depending on what he tells you, you will already determine if you continue the conversation or not.
Also, if you still feel something for your ex-partner and your options do not include resuming the relationship, then do not reply to the message, ignore it or simply delete it, in this way you will feel more calm and you will be able to continue facing your duel without confusion, without hurting yourself and without cheating on you
What you should do if your ex writes to you is to analyze yourself, if you have already healed the wounds, you have overcome it, that there are no more grudges or feelings, this is how you will determine if you are in the mental and sentimental capacity to answer the message or call . Once you answer him, you should pay due attention to his behavior and the intentions that your ex has to continue the conversation or ignore him.
